Minister Yahdan Yada, a social influencer, has cautioned women. He cautioned them against lending men money or allowing them to operate their vehicles.
According to Yada, who offered the counsel in a Facebook post on Sunday, May 25, a man isn’t a true man if he feels at ease approaching a woman for assistance while contributing nothing.
He asserts that a man can easily misinterpret a woman’s kindness and generosity, leading him to feel entitled. “Never give a man a loan.
Don’t let him operate your vehicle. Keep him out of your house at all costs. Because he will begin to treat your generosity as though it were a debt to him the moment you do.
He’ll mistake your kindness for expediency. He will begin referring to your strength as his safety net, but he will only make excuses. You are holy.
You’re not a treatment facility for men who don’t want to mature.
You don’t have a sponsor.
You are not his backup plan, his ride, or his shelter.
A man isn’t a man if he feels free to ask for your assistance without contributing anything. He is a liability. Real men construct.
Real men defend. Men are real. You are not drained by them.
They are not dependent on you. They don’t sit back and “figure it out” while you struggle. Make it more difficult. Instead of draining you until you lower your standard, make him rise to it.
Keep your peace. Recognise your value. Give up pretending to be a wife to men who haven’t justified your presence. If you weren’t taught by your father, I am! No Dusty Bums Allowed, NDBA!
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